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Yes-No-Maybe: A Kinky List

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Experience? Willingness?

Notes & Nuances

(Yes or No) 0=No 5=Yes

Anal sex

Beating (hands)

Beating (padded clubs)

Being bitten

Being serviced (sexual)

Blindfolds

Body paint

Bondage (heavy/suspension)

Bondage (intricate/Japanese style)

Bondage (light)

Bruises

Butt plugs

Cages (locked inside of)

Caning

Chains

Chastity belts

Clothespins

Cock rings/straps

Cock worship

Corsets

Cross-dressing

Cuffs (leather/metal)

Dildos

Double penetration

Erotic dancing

Exhibitionism

Eye contact restrictions

Experience? Willingness?

Notes & Nuances

(Yes or No) 0=No 5=Yes

Face slapping

Fisting

Flogging

Following orders

Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)

Foot worship

Gags (cloth/tape)

Genital sex

Hair pulling

Hairbrush spankings

Hand jobs (giving)

Hand jobs (receiving)

Head (giving)

Head (receiving)

High heels

Hot waxing

Ice cubes

Kneeling

Leather clothing

Leather restraints

Lingerie (wearing)

Manacles & Irons

Manicures (giving)

Manicures (receiving)

Marks (giving)

Marks (receiving)

Massage (giving)

Massage (receiving)

Modeling for erotic photos

Experience? Willingness?

Notes & Nuances

(Yes or No) 0=No 5=Yes

Nipple play/"torture"

Oral/anal play (rimming)

Orgasm denial

Outdoor sex

Over-the-knee spanking

Pain (mild to severe)

Phone sex

Pinching

Play Kidnapping

Punishment Scene

Pussy/cock whipping/spanking

Riding crops

Rubber/latex clothing

Saran wrapping

Scenes (prison, religious, etc.)

Scratching (giving)

Scratching (receiving)

Serving as a maid/butler

Shaving

Shoe/boot worship

Skinny-dipping

Slutty clothing (private or public)

Spanking

Spreader bars

Standing in corner

Stocks

Strap-on dildos

Swallowing semen

Swapping (with one other couple)

Experience? Willingness?

Notes & Nuances

(Yes or No) 0=No 5=Yes

Swinging (multiple couples)

Tattooing

Teasing

TENS Unit (electrical toy)

Thumbcuffs (metal)

Tickling

Triple Penetration

Uniforms

Vibrator on genitals

Video (recordings of you)

Video (watching others)

Violet Wand (electrical toy)

Voyeurism (watching others)

Wearing symbolic jewelry

Whips

Wooden paddles

Wrestling

Allergies

Medical conditions

Aftercare issues

Other fun stuff/ideas

Document Information

Fact Name Description
Purpose The Yes No Maybe List is designed to help individuals communicate their preferences and boundaries regarding various sexual activities.
Rating Scale Participants rate their willingness to engage in activities on a scale from 0 (No) to 5 (Yes).
Experience Tracking The list allows individuals to note their experience levels with each activity, promoting informed discussions.
Notes Section A section for additional notes and nuances is included, enabling participants to clarify their preferences.
Privacy Consideration Using this list can enhance privacy, as it allows for discreet communication of desires and limits.
Customization The list can be customized to include specific activities that are relevant to the participants.
Aftercare Importance Aftercare issues are addressed, emphasizing the importance of emotional support post-activity.
State-Specific Forms In some states, the use of such forms may be governed by local laws regarding consent and sexual activities.
Accessibility The list is accessible online, allowing easy sharing and completion among partners.

Yes No Maybe List - Usage Guidelines

Once you have gathered your thoughts and feelings about the various experiences listed, it's time to fill out the Yes No Maybe List form. This will help clarify your preferences and boundaries. Follow the steps below to complete the form accurately and thoughtfully.

  1. Begin by reading through the entire list of activities carefully. Take your time to consider each one.
  2. For each activity, decide your level of experience and willingness. Use the scale provided: 0 means "No" and 5 means "Yes."
  3. Write your rating next to each activity in the designated space.
  4. If you have any specific notes or nuances regarding an activity, jot those down in the notes section next to it. This could include anything from past experiences to specific preferences.
  5. Once you have completed all the activities, review your responses to ensure they accurately reflect your feelings.
  6. Finally, save or submit the form as required. Make sure to keep a copy for your records if needed.

Dos and Don'ts

When filling out the Yes No Maybe List form, consider the following guidelines to ensure a smooth and effective experience.

  • Do read each item carefully before responding.
  • Do be honest about your comfort levels and experiences.
  • Do use the provided scale (0-5) to indicate your willingness.
  • Do take your time to reflect on each activity.
  • Do communicate openly with your partner about your choices.
  • Don't rush through the form; thoughtful responses are important.
  • Don't feel pressured to agree to activities you are unsure about.
  • Don't ignore your boundaries; they are crucial for a safe experience.
  • Don't assume that everyone has the same preferences as you.
  • Don't forget to discuss aftercare needs and preferences.

Common mistakes

  1. Inconsistent Ratings: Individuals may provide ratings that do not reflect their true feelings or experiences. For example, a person might rate anal sex as a 5 but indicate a lack of willingness in the notes section.

  2. Overlooking Nuances: Some users fail to provide important context in the "Notes & Nuances" section. This can lead to misunderstandings about preferences or limits.

  3. Skipping Questions: People might skip certain items altogether, resulting in incomplete information. Each item is important for a comprehensive understanding of preferences.

  4. Misunderstanding the Scale: The scale of 0 to 5 may not be clearly understood. Some might interpret it differently, leading to inaccurate assessments of willingness.

  5. Not Being Honest: Users may feel pressured to conform to perceived norms or expectations. This can result in inflated ratings for activities they are not genuinely interested in.

  6. Neglecting Allergies and Medical Conditions: Important health considerations might be overlooked. Individuals should disclose any allergies or medical issues that could affect participation in certain activities.